Articles on women dating younger men

All the time I’m running into guys who tell me things like “I’m 36, but I look 30, so I tell women I’m 29.” Less often, though still regularly, I see guys in their 30s and even 40s who try to dress, act, and talk like men in their 20s.

Being an older man, but acting like a younger man (or worse, lying about your age) doesn’t make any sense.

You are destroying the very thing these Type 2s crave.

The older man / younger women stuff also generally applies to any man who is hitting up any woman of legal age who is more than 10 years younger than he is.

(Since men hitting up women within one to nine years younger is considered “normal” by society in most cases.) So in a way, a 45 year old man working with a 26 year old woman would apply here, even though she’s technically not a VYW.

Younger women, even Type 2s, are hypersensitive about creepy older men, as well they should be (for their own safety reasons).

Instead of being a creepy older guy, you need to be a confident, especially if you’re talking over texts, online, or in a public place, and/or if you have not established clear rapport yet. I see way too many older guys who do have chances with younger women completely blow it by being too creepy, too verbally sexual, way too fast.

This means that when you’re escalating on a woman, you need to push the envelope.

Even if you think she might consider what you’re doing “creepy”, you need to go for it.

Here then are the four mistakes men most often make when trying to attract younger women.

Mistake 1: Trying To Act Younger This is the granddaddy of them all.

These guys dress like nerds, have hair and grooming that look like crap, and worse, are often way too skinny or fat. You could dress like crap and not worry about your hair or your clothing too much, and still probably get laid.

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