Dating advice for girls from guys

Sign up for shopittome.com's "Sale Mail." They'll e-mail you when brands you've chosen have gone on sale in your size and in your area. Once I accepted that women were "crazy" (many older guys had insisted they were for years), it seemed to take a huge load of pressure off me.No longer was I trying to rationalize moves that women made that got me into crazy analysis cycles.Commitment means I've found my soul mate, that I am completely secure with myself, and that there should be no going back.

There is nothing more ghastly than makeup run amuck in the morning after spending the night together. Women tell me that they feel more pressure to settle down because they can't have children as easily past a certain age.

I don't feel pressure in that sense, but I do fear that my appearance and my "game" (not that either are working for me presently) will fade as I get older.

But if the baggage becomes apparent too early in the relationship, then a guy will probably bail.

Also, baggage causes people to put pressure on or damage a relationship, so it may be doomed from the outset. Commitment means that I've decided that the woman I'm settling down with is perfect and there is no one else out there for me.

I think the old adage "Girls mature faster than boys" comes into play here.

Commitment is a sign of maturity, and it just takes some of us longer. I know if a girl seems unsure of herself in bed, it gets distracting and starts to feel awkward.

While we played, security goons watched closely, and my dad could tell that we were nervous: "Just act like you are supposed to be here, and they won't ask any questions." Sure enough, it worked. Once I've made it into bed with a girl, no way I'm going to let my stupid mouth wreck things.

In fact, we've most likely made it to this point in spite of my mouth.

It's fun being one of the few guys in my group of friends who hasn't yet found love, but at the same time I wonder what is wrong with me..I'm trying to decide if time is running out.

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